1.
Shawn is one of the children who caught my attention. He is a 13 years old young boy
who lives with his mother and little sister. He does have another brother but due to the
house being small, he wasn't able to live with them. Although he wasn't in the future with
the things he always wanted, he was happy to have what he had. But he knew his
support system was small and very limited but he was grateful for them. He was also
worried about his mother working knowing she was sick and was scared she might get
sick. He seemed to help around the house in any way he could and did things as he
was told. Another thing I noticed was him realizing all the things his mother did for him
and his siblings even though she was limited to money and anything she was able to do.
The way he expressed himself about one of his support systems Mrs. Matters, how he
was aware she was sick but he was still happy he had her. When he found out she
passed away he was divested, he showed exactly how he felt, the sadness he felt
knowing he lost one of his support systems. The way he expressed his feelings about his
teacher was an eye-opener as to him already knowing what is a good support system for
you. He did have friends and he used his friends to support him. Especially during the
time that Covid was just starting and he didn't have the same support as being in person.
He didn't seem to be so mad at the fact that he couldn't have more, he walked to school
to get the materials he needed for school with no complaints. His mother also describes
him as a father figure to the little sister he has, that he takes over what she can do and
steps up, he cares for his family as it seems and wants to be able to give them the best
even though it might not be financially but with the best support, he can provide.
2.
Shawns' mother seems to be like a great mother, one who makes sacrifices and wants
to give kids what she can. Even though she is sick and can't work in order for her to
keep the benefits she receives she has to work at the Salvation Army, it is the sacrifices
she makes in order to give her kids what she can, the basic needs. Even though she
might not have the transportation she wishes she could have, she still gets them to A
and B destinations or what they need for food and school materials. She notices the type
of kids she has and sees where Shawn helps her and the figures he plays in his sibling's
life and her own. The stretches she makes in order for them to not fully become
homeless or be in need of what others have is great. She has taught her son to be
grateful for what she can give him. She knew Mrs. Matter was one of his supporters so
seeing him devastated made her sad as well. During this time and moment, she offered
him the resources she was able to provide for him or give him. She knew that he didn't
want to speak with her and gave him options of where he could go whether it was with
her or the counseling provided by the school. She made the perfect sacrifice that
allowed herself to give her kids what they needed
3.
One of the biggest parenting factors that caught my attention was giving her kids the
space and the support they need. When Shawn's teacher passed away the mother knew
maybe he didn't want my support and maybe it was easier for him to open up to
someone else so she provided a different support system. Another parenting factor that
caught my attention was the way she taught her kids to fight for what they wanted or to
be who they were. She taught them that a multiracial family is okay, she showed them to
be aware of how racial injustice does exist.