a very good excuse to say no to her husband because he cant question it since he doesn't, can't
and will never feel the exact pain she went through and is still feeling.
Next, Roberto went through something a little more differently, he didn't use his illness to get out
of an abuse taken by his significant other, instead he unconsciously used this illness to take a
workload off his shoulders. He spent so much time at work, struggling and suffering to support
his family that when he became extremely ill, he felt as if he was letting his family down and that
he would much rather die than spend the money to get a surgery done. He felt as if he became an
inadequate son when in reality he was a more than adequate son and did a lot more for his family
then others might have. Even though he may have lost his strength and stamina due to his cancer
treatment, his illness narrative redefines his role in the household (Peter J. Brown, Svea Closser,
2016, p. 245-246) He still does roles for his family but it also accompanied by the help with his
family members now while still keeping the label of a "good son" even though he may be
achieving a less physical work then how he was before, they are not belittling him because of it,
they are supporting him, comforting him, and helping him.
This article was really interesting to read because you got an idea of how people recover from
cancer and the treatment that comes with it, because cancer is something that no one really
knows how one may feel when the news is broken to them. Just the thought of knowing that you
have cancer isolates you from other people. You may start to feel different knowing you have an
illness that may come with intensive care to treat it. I think the study could have improved if we
got a sense of how they were like when they were first diagnosed with cancer, we may have seen
the end result and saw how things got better for them, but I think analyzing the process of how
they were when they first got diagnosed to after they were finally treated, we can see what things
change; personality, mood, socialness. Cancer can affect a lot of things and make people feel